HOW TO SAVE YOUR DAUGHTER BY OCHULI OKUTEPA.

1. Your tomorrow is summarized in who you say 'yes' or 'no' to!

2 Choice is the compass of experience

3. 'Love' is a verb. Don't ever treat it as a mere word.

4. Money and fame do not make good husbands.

5. Make sure you marry THE PERSON, whatever he has is an addition

6. Many men would want you and you will want many of them back. Make sure God wants the one you enter.

7. Don't ever chase a man who is not chasing after you.

8. Never date yourself thinking you are dating a man whose heart is not with you.

9. When a man asks you for marriage, he is asking for 'the rest of your life'.

10. Never marry a man who gives you anything or everything but himself.

11. Your true man will honor your choice, your opinion and your body. He will never undermine your free will.

12. Ordinarily, men will relate with you within the boundaries you enforce.

13. Getting married is not enough. Living a fulfilled life is the call; so don't put 'getting married' above living a fulfilled life.

14. Good men are not 'hard to find'.

15. You are not the one searching.

16. Be God's best, have faith and you will only have to make a choice from an interested bunch.

17. A man will honor any woman who is herself even when money and material things are flajnted.

18. It disarms him and forces him to be himself because he will realize that this one is cannot be bought with things.

19. When he asks you out, ask him questions by all means. Never blindly make a decision.

20. Let the gist flow. Don't play hard to get and make information hard to get.

21. You need to know who the dude is. Basically, you are to investigate.

22. It is fine to accept a man who is starting and hasn't got a lot as long as he is actively pursuing life with a vision.

23. It is not okay to be the one he is taking to mama when you clearly know he is taking others to bed.

24. Don't 'procure him' using anything. If you get him by boobs, you will loose him to other boobs.

25. If you trap him by sex, he will meet a more adventurous one soon.

26. If he came because of YOU. He won't find anyone to replace you.

27. If you let your emotions go before your decision, you may make a mistake.

OCHOLI OKUTEPA.