LADIES, DON'T BE PUPPETS FOR GUYS- BY SAKEENAH'WRITES

Just like failure is the road that leads to your success, countless proposals from guys is the road that leads to your marriage life. Proposals and guys asking you out here and there are only preparing you for marriage. So, when guys keep asking you out even if majority are flirts and wanna use girls to satisfy their sexual or lustful desires, let them continue.

But don't ever say you are not ready to get married when you know you are ripe for marriage, don't ever try to flirt with their feelings and don't ever say that a lady or guy is not your type because such words can destroy your future especially because some people don't take things lightly and you don't even know how your future husband or wife would look like.

So when guys ask you out, listen to the drama and sincerely try to understand what they are trying to prove but making them look like a fool for approaching or proposing to you is the most foolish thing any girl would do. Just accept it as part of you being a lady, love the moment.

Don't feel too special or egoistic because guys are asking you out, be simple, be sincere but don't be weak, be nice but don't be a fool and learn from each experience because the more proposals you get, the more the true identity of guys would automatically unveil itself and you would know how to manage your own relationship as well as handling your own man in the FUTURE.

Also, to those girls who sell their body to guys all in the name of money or materialism and to those girls who think that every guy who tells you "I love you" means it and you allow it get to you, my dear the painful truth is that "you are only being a puppet for useless men!" More than 50% of guys today, even girls don't understand the meaning of the word, love.

They just say it for fun, they don't understand it's meaning dear! The word "I love you" to them is just a piece of cake and it has lost its value because people use it too much to the extent that it's being misused but believe me when you see a guy that is truly interested in you and has good intentions, you would know even without him telling you that he loves you.

Lastly, to those girls who take delight in flirting with guys and taking their sincerity for granted, my dear if you think guys are the fools then you are wrong because you are the biggest fool too. This is because in the end you would end up with just one man or you end up single for life! My dear, we ladies need to understand that God created men in a different way, 

He created men in such a way that even at age 40 they can still enjoy and waste their life without seeing any negative results. Yet, we ladies at age 30 or less, age, health issues or even infertility start telling on you as a result of too much illicit sexual affairs and bad way of lifestyle and by then only very few sincere men would muster the courage to accept you the way you are but many would only add to your problems. 

Still, these does not give any guy, man or boy the right to mess with the body or life of a lady because believe me if not now but there's surely a dire consequence for every act but for now God is just watching you pile up your sins until he's ready to deal with you.

SAKEENAH'WRITES 

-Nigeria