MAYMUNAH BINT AL-HARITH: LOVE AND UNDERSTANDING IN ISLAMIC MARRIAGES- ABU QAANIT
Though, I was expecting much of Islamic family affairs in a course titled "Islamic family law" which I was fortunate to attend the class. ```Oh wait, I'm JUSH 🙂, oya let's continue 😁.``` Basically the class emphasized and interactively explained the principles of polygyny marriage in relation to the contemporary critics on it, Muslim sisters who were in class found the topic objecting while the Muslims brothers engaged it otherwise. No room for celibacy as such practice was condemned under religious and cultural ethics.
Practically, many examples were given to ease the mind of sisters based on questions and expecting convincing answers from them. Honestly, the class was engaging and ended with a hope of seeing marriage invitation cards (I.V) before or after the end of the course, I hope so 😊🥰.
Yet, I'll still hold my stance that, a believing Muslim brothers and sisters who are looking up to almost perfect marriage should delve into the marital life of the prophet who did not even married four wives but eleven wives, if you are saying the prophet is morally and religiously upright and can't be compared to the brothers of nowadays, don't forget he is also a man like others, buh only different because he was chosen as a prophet. In addition, her wives were neither prophetesses or free from faults yet they lived harmoniously under the guides and responsibilities of the prophet who never discriminated nor reduced love for any of his wives.
Polygyny, which refers to the practice of having multiple wives, was not introduced by Prophet Muhammad but rather existed in pre-Islamic Arabian society. Islam rather or however, regulated and restricted the practice by allowing a Muslim man to have up to four wives under specific conditions as stated in the above Quranic verse. It is important to understand that polygyny is not obligatory in Islam, but it is permissible under certain circumstances, so keep calm brothers and sisters. ❣️
It is essential to approach the topic of polygyny with sensitivity and understanding. While it is permissible in Islam, it is not suitable for everyone and should only be undertaken if the conditions can be met. Each individual and relationship is unique, and what works for one person may not work for another.
Furthermore, Muslim men interested in polygyny should approach it with caution, taking into account the emotional and financial responsibilities that come with multiple marriages. It is vital to seek guidance from knowledgeable Muslim scholars and religious councillors to ensure that any decision regarding polygyny is made in accordance with Islamic principles and the well-being of all parties involved.
Ultimately, promoting understanding, open dialogue, and mutual respect within the Muslim community can help alleviate fears and misunderstandings related to polygyny and foster healthy relationships based on Islamic principles.
Hence, the concept of love and understanding built up the themes of this my write-up.
So let's continue 😁😊..
The Prophet Muhammad, peace be upon him, married Maymunah bint al-Harith, also known as Ummi Abdullah, during the later years of his life. The marriage took place in the seventh year after the migration of the Prophet to Medina.
For Muslim sisters who may be hesitant or fearful of entering into a polygynous marriage, it is crucial to remember that they have the right to choose whether or not to enter such a marriage. They should also engage in open and honest communication with their potential spouse about their concerns, expectations, and boundaries.
With that regard, I'd like to take you down to the prophet's relationship with Maymunah bint Al-Harith with a noveltic narration.
Chapter 1: Serendipitous Encounter
In the bustling streets of the vibrant city of Mecca, a humble woman named Maymunah bint al-Harith lived a life of piety and grace. Widowed at a young age, she devoted herself to her faith and the pursuit of knowledge. Maymunah possessed an undeniable beauty that radiated from within, drawing the attention of many suitors. However, she was discerning and patient, waiting for a love that would resonate with her soul. (My advice to brothers who are eager to get married should consider sisters too because they also pass through this stage of Maymunah, they want time and are patient when considering their spouse, just be yourself and be concerning 🙂😇)
Meanwhile, in the heart of the Arabian Peninsula, the revered Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) had been entrusted with the divine responsibility of guiding humanity towards the path of righteousness. Despite the weight of his responsibilities, Muhammad longed for companionship and the solace of a loving and supportive spouse.
Chapter 2: Destiny's Plan
As fate would have it, news reached Maymunah's ears of a noble man whose character was unmatched. Curiosity interested, she listened intently to the stories of Prophet Muhammad's compassion, wisdom, and unwavering dedication to justice. Inspired, Maymunah sought the opportunity to meet him and learn from his teachings.
It was during a journey to Mecca that Prophet Muhammad crossed paths with Maymunah. Their first encounter was humble yet profound. The Prophet was struck by her grace and the sincerity that emanated from her eyes. A profound connection was formed, as if two souls destined to intertwine had finally found each other. (This is a path where I believe in love at first sight, do you believe too? And sisters, when we say this to you, as a believing sister, you shouldn't doubt it, most of us are being honest)
Chapter 3: A Blossoming Love
The bond between Prophet Muhammad and Maymunah grew steadily stronger with time. Their love was built on mutual respect, trust, and a shared commitment to their faith. The Prophet admired Maymunah's strength of character and wisdom, while Maymunah found solace and guidance in the Prophet's presence.
As news of their union spread throughout the Muslim community, it served as a source of inspiration and hope for couples seeking to build a harmonious and loving home. Their relationship exemplified the ideals of companionship in Islam, emphasizing the importance of open communication, kindness, and support in marriage.
Chapter 4: Trials and Triumphs
Like any marriage, Prophet Muhammad and Maymunah faced challenges along their journey. The pressures of leading a burgeoning community and external conflicts tested the strength of their relationship. Yet, they remained steadfast, seeking solace in their faith and supporting one another through thick and thin.
Their love provided a guiding light for contemporary Muslim homes, encouraging couples to navigate the complexities of modern life with compassion, forgiveness, and resilience. The lessons learned from their experiences fostered an atmosphere of mutual growth and understanding within Muslim households.
There is no historical evidence to suggest that there were any misunderstandings or conflicts between Prophet Muhammad and Maymunah. Their marriage appears to have been harmonious and peaceful. Maymunah was known for her piety and her devotion to Islam, and she was highly respected by the Prophet and the Muslim community.
As for the other wives of the Prophet, it is natural for human relationships to have their ups and downs, and the Prophet's marriages were no exception. However, it is important to note that the Prophet Muhammad was known for treating all of his wives with kindness, fairness, and justice to the best of his ability.
Chapter 5: Legacy of Love
Prophet Muhammad and Maymunah's marriage blossomed into a union that left an indelible mark on the annals of Islamic history. Their love served as a shining example of the beauty of Islam, reinforcing the teachings of kindness, patience, and devotion within the context of a sacred bond.
The story of their marital affairs continues to motivate and inspire upcoming Muslim couples, reminding them of the potential for deep emotional connections rooted in faith and shared values. Through their example, Prophet Muhammad and Maymunah illuminate the path to marital bliss, demonstrating that a harmonious and fulfilling marriage can be attained by embodying the principles of Islam.
Epilogue: Eternal Love (the last path)
As time moved forward, the love shared between Prophet Muhammad and Maymunah became a timeless testament to the beauty of their union. Their devotion and commitment to one another left an everlasting imprint on the hearts of believers.
Their story echoes through the ages, encouraging generations of Muslims to seek love and companionship within the framework of Islam. It stands as a reminder that even amidst the complexities of marital affairs and its complications, they struggle to attain its perfection and their marriage was a blessing that many young brothers and sisters are looking up to till today.
AWESU JAMIU OLUWADAMILARE
(Abu Qaanit)
- Nigeria
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